Grow Old With Me / Let Me Count The Ways

Milk and Honey 1984 

Released January 9, 1984 (UK) / January  27, 1984 (USA)

By Madeline Bocaro

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 This pair of beautiful songs are from the 1980 Double Fantasy album sessions – a dialogue of songs between John and Yoko. They appeared on the album Milk and Honey which Yoko released in January 1984, three years after John’s death. In this couplet of songs, John and Yoko declare their eternal love, intending a long life together. Sadly, their future was destroyed in an instant, just after the songs were written. In fact, although their story seems to be infinite, they only had less than twelve years together.

‘Grow Old With Me’ was John’s unfinished piano / drum machine cassette demo – one of the last songs that he ever recorded.

Both songs are inspired by poems by the Victorian poets Elizabeth Barrett Browning and Robert Browning. In her Milk and Honey liner notes, Yoko relates that she and John believed that they might have been the reincarnation of Barrett and Browning. The Milk and Honey album jacket includes verses by the Brownings printed next to lyrics by John and Yoko.

“On December 25, ’80, I discovered that I received a Christmas present from John which he had bought and had it held as a surprise for me. It was a portrait and an original handwriting of Robert and Elizabeth Browning framed side by side.”

 – Yoko

Ringo Starr has collaborated with Paul McCartney on a version of ‘Grow Old With Me’ for his new album, What’s My Name (October 2019). Ringo was unaware of the demo recording which was among other unfinished recordings of John’s (‘Free as a Bird’ and ‘Real Love’) given by Yoko Ono to be completed by Paul, George and Ringo for The Beatles Anthology project in 1995.

Double Fantasy producer Jack Douglas recently made Ringo aware of the cassette. After Ringo heard a personal message to himself from John on the demo tape, he decided to include the song on his album. Ringo told the BBC, “It says on the beginning ‘This will be great for you, Ringo.’ And so I said ‘I’m going to do the track.’” He recruited Paul to play bass and said of John, “He’d have loved it.”

The idea that John was talking about me in that time before he died, well, I’m an emotional person. And I just loved this song. I sang it the best that I could. I do well up when I think of John this deeply. And I’ve done my best. We’ve done our best.”

He added: “The other good thing is that I really wanted Paul to play on it… Paul came over and he played bass and sings a little bit on this with me. So, John’s on it in a way. I’m on it and Paul’s on it.”

-Ringo, AP 2019

Ringo’s versionhttps://youtu.be/DqJJ9UFkVP0

An embellished orchestral version of ‘Grow Old With Me’ produced by George Martin  appears on the 1998 John Lennon Anthology box.

Listen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLHJepdaV0k

Grow Old With Me

John Lennon

Grow old along with me / The best is yet to be
When our time has come /We will be as one
God bless our love /God bless our love

Grow old along with me /Two branches of one tree
Face the setting sun / When the day is done
God bless our love / God bless our love

Spending our lives together /Man and wife together
World without end / World without end

Grow old along with me / Whatever fate decrees
We will see it through / For our love is true
God bless our love / God bless our love

‘Let Me Count The Ways’ is Yoko’s answer to John’s ‘Grow Old With Me’.

In each lyrical phrase, Yoko, in gratitude illustrates and compares the way that she loves, misses, sees and touches John with imagery from nature (in the same touching way that John describes Yoko and and his mother in his song ‘Julia’). She relates John’s spirit to invisible or ethereal, yet familiar things that we can clearly imagine.

Although Yoko wrote the song when he was alive, it’s almost as if she wrote the it after John’s passing, as he seems just out of reach. Yoko implements animism – inserting John’s soul into all these delicate, intangible and timeless elements as if she knew that he would remain with her forever.

A gentle wind at dawn, the first sun that hits the dew

That lake in the mountain you heard about

The air around me that holds me gently

The first snow I made my wishes to

The moonlight that covers the world

(See all lyrics below)

The 1992 Onobox 3:05 extended version includes the most beautiful verse.

Listen here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TN2Z4l7to5A

Listen to the song here, with a sweet photo montage:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XA2CTqWkmmo

Yoko tells the story of John & Yoko’s wishing bell at Dream Power Japan 2008 Translation of Yoko’s touching introduction:
“He told me that he loves me every day.
But I was shy and only said, “Yes, thank you very much.”
So, he was very happy to hear “let me count the ways” and he said, “You finally said I love you.”
And he made the answer song “Grow Old With Me ” for me. And now I wanted to tell him more “I Love You.”

2008年 Dream Power ジョン・レノン スーパー・ライヴ Watch here.

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‘Let Me Count The Ways’ was later remixed by San Francisco indie band Beulah (who, in 2003 titled their 4th album Yoko). The intro sounds like the start of the Sid Vicious version of “My Way”!

(Beulah singer Miles Kurosky: “Yoko had to be the title since the record is about love, my growth as an artist, and the changes I’ve been going through as a human being. I wanted to make a more mature, confident and daring artistic statement. The word ‘Yoko’ says it all: change, progress and risk.”)

 

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Let Me Count The Ways – Yoko Ono

Let me count the ways how I love you
It’s like that gentle wind you feel at dawn
It’s like that first sun that hits the dew
It’s like that cloud with a gold lining telling us softly
That it’ll be a good day, a good day for us
Thank you, thank you, thank you 

 Let me count the ways how I miss you
It’s like that oak tree in my childhood garden
It’s like that first summer I spent in Egypt
It’s like that warm evening you read to me
Both knowing deeply
That it’s a good time, a good time for us
Thank you, thank you, thank you 

Let me count the ways how I see you
It’s like that lake in the mountain you heard about
It’s like that autumn sky that stays so blue
It’s like that air around me that holds me gently
Whispering strongly that you’re always there, always for me
Thank you, thank you, thank you

Let me count the ways how you touch me

It’s like that misty rain that warms my heart

It’s like that first snow I made my wishes to

It’s like that moonlight that covers the world

Tellng me kindly, to have a good sleep

Have a good sleep tonight

Thank you, thank you, thank you

Elizabeth Browning 1806-1861:

The 43rd sonnet of Sonnets from the Portuguese

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of everyday’s
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love thee with a passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood’s faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints, — I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life! — and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.

Robert Browning 1812 – 1889:

Rabbi ben Ezra

Grow old along with me!
The best is yet to be,
The last of life, for which the first was made:
Our times are in His hand
Who saith “A whole I planned,
Youth shows but half; trust God: see all, nor be afraid!

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3 thoughts on “Grow Old With Me / Let Me Count The Ways

  1. Very observant thought, that Yoko’s song to John is almost post-physical, in that his love is present to her only by reflection from natural things.

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