WHITE WEDDING – John & Yoko – March 20, 1969
By Madeline Bocaro ©
Beautiful Yoko with a wistful smile, minutes after her wedding to John. She is gazing ahead, dreaming of ‘the future we’d never reach’.* Nothing could break their eternal union.
I just believe in me
Yoko and me
– John Lennon, ‘God’ 1970
John and Yoko were the Adam and Eve of our generation. John took a bite of Yoko’s ‘Apple’ upon their first meeting at London’s Indica gallery in November 1966. They stood naked – as did the folks in the garden of Eden – on the album cover of their first recording together, Unfinished Music: Two Virgins.
John had always imagined someone like Yoko coming into his life. John mentions Yoko in the Beatles’ song ‘Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds’.
“There was also the image of the female who would someday come save me – a ‘girl with kaleidoscope eyes’ who would come out of the sky. It turned out to be Yoko, though I hadn’t met Yoko yet. So maybe it should be Yoko In The Sky With Diamonds.”
John Lennon to David Sheff (All We Are Saying)
Images of Yoko intertwine with those of his beloved mother in ‘Julia’, as John describes Yoko using elements of nature; ocean child (the meaning of her name in Japanese), seashell eyes, windy smile, morning moon, silent cloud… Later, Yoko inspired John’s most famous song with an instruction from her book Grapefruit.
Imagine the clouds dripping
Dig a hole in your garden to
put them in.
John and Yoko were married in a 10-minute ceremony in Gibraltar performed by registrar Cecil Wheeler in his office. The happy couple both wore white. Yoko looked cool in a mini skirt, hip Linda Farrow shades and a big floppy white hat. She accessorized with tennis shoes and knee-high socks. John drew a wedding ring on Yoko’s finger with a pen, as her ring was being re-sized.
“It was very romantic. It’s all in the song ‘The Ballad of John & Yoko’. If you want to know how it happened, it’s in there. Gibraltar was like a sunny little dream. I couldn’t find a white suit. I had sort of off-white corduroy trousers and a white jacket. Yoko had all white on.” – John
The only guests were assistant Peter Brown and photographer David Nutter who was summoned to Gibraltar but not informed exactly why. (David is the brother of Tommy Nutter, the Savile Row tailor who designed the white suit that John is wearing on the Abbey Road album cover).
(Here is a fabulous new book about Tommy Nutter: House of Nutter: The Rebel Tailor of Savile Row):
The Lennons’ wedding photo negatives were lost (or stolen) after being loaned to an author of a book on the couple.
(The Ballad of John & Yoko’s Burgled Wedding Photos):
John and Yoko’s strange and very public honeymoon took place in the presidential suite of the Amsterdam Hilton hotel. The Lennons invited the world’s media to witness their seven-day ‘Bed-In for Peace’, starting on March 25th, five days after their wedding. They capitalized on their infamy which attracted the media. The couple decided to utilize the valuable publicity to promote world peace. During their second honeymoon (another Bed-In in Montreal) John composed the peace anthem, ‘Give Peace a Chance’.
“You know, the words, ‘All we are saying is give peace a chance’ literally came out of my mouth as a spoken answer to a reporter, after being asked millions of times, ‘What are you doing?” – John
John and Yoko released Wedding Album on October (US) and November (UK) 1969. Throughout Side One, they repeatedly called each other’s names over the amplified sound of their heartbeats (recorded in April 1969). Side Two consisted of “Amsterdam”, snippets of dialogue and singing recorded at the Bed In, March 1969.
“Around the time that I met John, I went to a palmist – John would probably laugh at this – and he said: ‘You’re like a very very fast wind that goes speeding around the world.’ And I had a line that signified astral projection. The only thing I didn’t have was a root. But, the palmist said, you’ve met a person who’s fixed like a mountain, and if you get connected with that mountain you might get materialized. And John is like a frail wind, too, so he understands all of these aspects.”
– To Jonathan Cott, Yoko Ono and Her Sixteen-Track Voice,
Rolling Stone March 18, 1971
* ‘Winter Song’ – Yoko Ono